UCCUTE OP t1_jadv43x wrote on February 28, 2023 at 6:55 PM

Reply to comment by Interesting-Month-56 in 22F/27M Abandonment issue made him escapes from me. Gonna see him tonight need advice from people! by UCCUTE

I feels this is too fast as well. But we’ve been seeing everyday for a month. I feel I’ve already known him pretty much.

I did have one experience similar like this before. The first guy I’ve been dating I cried for the first date because I like him a lot( idk just for no reason) and I want to jump into a relationship immediately with him. I kept telling him I wants to see him again. And he told me he was scared and stressful for the first date.

I thought he would ghost me but we met the second time, he cried in front of me as well cause he told me he likes me as well but not too much and still wants to meet me. He’s scared of making commitment because we only met TWICE…..

I know this is so ridiculous lmao.. I don’t know what’s wrong with me…

Interesting-Month-56 t1_jae9vul wrote on February 28, 2023 at 8:28 PM

Nothing is wrong with you. You might have habits or behaviors that are counterproductive. You might have life experience that trained you to react in ways that are suboptimal.

We’re all like that. If you go around thinking you are broken, then improving is impossible because broken things are just trash, right?

But yeah, the things you describe suggest some unhealthy behaviors.