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mercifulalien t1_jabgvi0 wrote

I have never used dating apps myself, but...

>I found out from a friend that she was on his bumble date page. I asked him to show me. She’s removed the pictures of us and only has pictures of her.

Even I can tell that's no bueno.

You know what this is.

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Total_Industry218 OP t1_jabgzfz wrote

Oh absolutely. I’m more so wondering if there’s the possibility something else happened. Like with the settings. Just so that if I bring it up, I’m not the jealous insecure asshole yenno? Thanks

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FlyingSpaghettiFell t1_jabj0gz wrote

It is totally possible to hit the wrong button drunk or something, BUT changing the pictures… not really… unless it was a profile from BEFORE you were together? Otherwise… she went on there… why? Well that is another story… not great.

If my boyfriend did this, I would just walk in the room and say “Bumble. Explain.” And wait… make it awkward so he starts talking… and listen. 90% I would end it there… but I can see the curiosity thing happening. I would have to trust him a lot but really… it would be in my head that this was not good.

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slimjim2019 t1_jae10oi wrote

she literally cut you out of pics, and what a coincidence, shes on a dating app with those said pics....come on man, you are in a relationship with a woman who apparently wants to date others. I mean if youre okay with that, then great. But doesnt sound like you are. You are 100 percent naïve though, if you think this was a mistake.

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Total_Industry218 OP t1_jae1b9w wrote

Yeah, no come on man necessary haha believe me I know. I’m more asking about the features of the app, like dating vs bff, before confronting. It isn’t going to end well either way 🤷‍♂️ but I do want to know. Thanks for your response

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