Submitted by Total_Industry218 t3_11dy1f2 in relationship_advice
I’ll try to keep this short. About a year ago, we agreed that we would each make bumble bff accounts. We were depressed and thinking that meeting new people would help out. We both helped each other draft bios, made sure to be very clear that we were seeking platonic friendships only, and that we included pictures with each other in our profiles.
Fast forward 11 months, and I haven’t been using the account much since last summer. Found that it doesn’t really work. She has been using it, and frequently messages girls from there, although nothing has really materialized.
I found out from a friend that she was on his bumble date page. I asked him to show me. She’s removed the pictures of us and only has pictures of her.
Look I’m not trying to be sarcastic here, but my question is, is there something I’m missing? I’m not too knowledgeable about these apps, for instance, she was on tinder when we met and I had never used it. I just, I want to make sure I’m not going to be an asshole for calling her out or raising a fuss over it…lol. Any advice or suggestions as to what else may be going on would be much appreciated. Don’t want to accuse her of something that isn’t true, yenno? Also, dreading the truth that may exist.
TIA
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