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Cabbage_Patch_Itch t1_jaevkp3 wrote

He is incorrect, you absolutely do not have to get used to it! I’m assuming you’re not exaggerating and this is indeed a serious hoard. He needs to get help if he thinks you just need to adapt to the filth. Don’t go! If you do, check expiration dates on anything you eat and sniff meat products.

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anxiousanonxyz OP t1_jaex2as wrote

Oh no, I wouldn’t have an issue if it was just a little messy. The kitchen isn’t even useable because of so much stuff, there is only pathways to get around, along with three cats, and being a mobile home it’s just…. rough. I feel bad and try to be gentle with the subject because of it being his mom, but with this I just don’t know what to do.

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Cabbage_Patch_Itch t1_jaexl86 wrote

Don’t be gentle. If he cares for his mom and is aware of what healthy accommodations look like then he needs to help her instead of trying to make you live in filth.

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