anxiousanonxyz OP t1_jaex2as wrote on February 28, 2023 at 11:02 PM

Reply to comment by Cabbage_Patch_Itch in My (26F) boyfriend (28M) wants us to stay in a hoarder home? by anxiousanonxyz

Oh no, I wouldn’t have an issue if it was just a little messy. The kitchen isn’t even useable because of so much stuff, there is only pathways to get around, along with three cats, and being a mobile home it’s just…. rough. I feel bad and try to be gentle with the subject because of it being his mom, but with this I just don’t know what to do.

Cabbage_Patch_Itch t1_jaexl86 wrote on February 28, 2023 at 11:06 PM

Don’t be gentle. If he cares for his mom and is aware of what healthy accommodations look like then he needs to help her instead of trying to make you live in filth.