Comments

You must log in or register to comment.

AffectionateWheel386 t1_jaddz1y wrote

I swear I’m gonna finish reading it, but just the title alone I do not understand why people are trying to protect a person that is harmed them. Protecting an extra cheats usually gets turned back on you in someway because they’re not going to fess up.

4

[deleted] OP t1_jadelnl wrote

[deleted]

1

AffectionateWheel386 t1_jadf6wi wrote

OK that makes more sense. I’m of a mine were you may need to start making other friends. Do you have other people to go to that are outside of the group.

You can still say we broke up because he cheated and leave it at that. Because when you don’t do that you’re not even sticking up for yourself, you’re protecting his needs over your own. And he already did that. I had a group in my 20s like that to an eventually I just moved away from them. To nine own self be true.

2

MsChrisRI t1_jadpjoq wrote

Making a big announcement would feel like deliberately stirring drama. But I see no reason not to drop it into conversations when it fits. For example, Guy Friend J rolls his eyes and mentions that your ex was flirting with his girlfriend again. You then have an opening to say “I wish he’d grow up and stop playing games. I found out a couple months ago that he sexted someone overseas for almost two years behind my back.”

2

AutoModerator t1_jaddali wrote

Welcome to /r/relationship_advice. Please make sure you read our rules here. We'd like to take this time to remind users that:

  • We do not allow any type of am I the asshole? or situations/content involving minors

  • Any sort of namecalling, insults,etc will result in the comment being removed and the user being banned. (Including but not limited to: slut, bitch, whore, for the streets, etc. It does not matter to whom you are referring.)

  • ALL advice given must be good, ethical advice. Joke advice or advice that is conspiratorial or just plain terrible will be removed, and users my be subject to a ban.

  • No referencing hateful subreddits and/or their rhetoric. Examples include, but is not limited to: red/blue/black/purplepill, PUA, FDS, MGTOW, etc. This includes, but is not limited to, referring to people as alpha/beta, calling yourself or users "friend-zoned", referring to people as Chads, Tyrones, or Staceys, pick-me's, or pornsick. Any infractions of this rule will result in a ban. This is not an all-inclusive list.

  • All bans in this subreddit are permanent. You don't get a free pass.

  • What we cannot give advice on: rants, unsolicited advice, medical conditions/advice, mental illness, letters to an ex, "body counts" or number of sexual partners, legal problems, financial problems, situations involving minors, and/or abuse (violence, sexual, emotional etc). All of these will be removed and locked. This is not an all-inclusive list.

If you have any questions, please send us a modmail.

#This is an automatic comment that appears on all posts. This comment does not necessarily mean your post violates any rules.

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

1