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jamicam t1_jefyskw wrote

Both of you need to work on communication. Money is a tough topic for a lot of couples. You need to talk about it openly, honestly, and without getting angry at each other. Give him a little space and then time to have a talk about improving communication so that when you do disagree it doesn't become a huge problem, just an issue to work through together. Then together explore some resources on good communication in relationships, like this - you can find a lot with a few simple google searches:

https://www.healthline.com/health/lack-of-communication#signs-of-a-problem

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[deleted] OP t1_jeg0qx4 wrote

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yellowduckfeet t1_jeg55gb wrote

>which I already contributed little to as I struggled to organize my thoughts, and was really mostly him venting and brainstorming

You're already admitting that you didn't communicate with him because you struggled to organize your thoughts. That is not good communication.

You're 22, I don't think you should be relying on your boyfriend to wake you you up for your interview, you should be able to do that yourself.

He's possibly busy at work? Let him go through his day, maybe make him dinner for when he comes home and then talk to him during it.

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