smellyrox t1_jegpd5r wrote on March 31, 2023 at 9:57 PM

Reply to comment by the-mirrors-truth in My(23F) Bf(24M) shares bites of food with his younger sister by [deleted]

They’re super weird with each other and she’s always wearing the tiniest clothes. Is it abnormal for me to sexualize their relationship when I don’t think I could be that comfortable being nearly as naked around my brother unless I were at the beach? In combination with their super close attachment and constant touching, sexual jokes, and sharing food? Like am i really that wrong for hating the dynamic because it feels incestual to me?

the-mirrors-truth t1_jegq95f wrote on March 31, 2023 at 10:03 PM

Sexual jokes are weird depending on contacts.

But for most siblings they don't actually view their siblings in a sexual way regardless of what they're wearing so yes being paranoid about her clothes says more about your insecurities than it does about their relationship.

If it bothers you so much reconsider the relationship.

Normal siblings don't think anything of their siblings body or in the same sphere as a sexual partner.