ImAdou21Gta OP t1_je9xn24 wrote on March 30, 2023 at 2:11 PM

Reply to comment by the-mirrors-truth in I(M21) ghosted my ex (F21) that cheated and lied to me with her ex(22), but I feel like I'm the one who broke her heart by ImAdou21Gta

Yeah, that's why I feel sad and I can't really move on, can you please give me any advice that's could help me to completly forget this drama ? thank you tho

the-mirrors-truth t1_jea0fob wrote on March 30, 2023 at 2:32 PM

I don't think you should forget it tho, learn and grow from this.

It's going to hurt for sometime It's true.

One, block her from everything.

And keep yourself busy, go out with friends, see family. Pick up a new hobby, learn a new language just don't stay idle.

ImAdou21Gta OP t1_jea1qc1 wrote on March 30, 2023 at 2:42 PM

Definitely, I started playing piano and practicing tennis again, it feels really good, but when I get back home, I start thinking about them again, they have haunted my mind, but that's life, I can't do anything else besides accepting the truth, feeling the real pain then move on with time. Thanks again I really appreciate your help <33

the-mirrors-truth t1_jea2hc9 wrote on March 30, 2023 at 2:47 PM

For sure keep it up man!

I know it hurts, its hard not to obsess. Hey, even even when at home try a new hobby or class. Plenty of online classes you can take. Helps keep your mind occupied

ImAdou21Gta OP t1_jeepu0q wrote on March 31, 2023 at 2:02 PM

I'll, I've just bought some udemy courses to get better at coding, for now I'm enjoying it.

the-mirrors-truth t1_jeewlde wrote on March 31, 2023 at 2:48 PM

Hey that's great! coding is a great way to keep yourself occupied! Good luck!