There's nothing about this that's ok. Pressuring someone into sex isn't something that you do to someone that you care about.

You're a person, not a vibrator, if he's horny tell him that he's got hands.

The issues here are pretty fundamental, it sounds like he barely sees you as a person, it's highly unlikely you're going to be able to 'fix' him. This dude is not ready for a healthy relationship.