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Ok-Astronaut-2837 t1_je9u6l4 wrote

Jesus. Why do men do this? Unless you tell her every day that she's beautiful, this is going to continue to be a problem for her as long as you're in her life. It's something she needs to work on and probably was before you wrecked her self-esteem. I'd say she needs to be with someone who considers her a 10/10, instead of someone who won't even consider her feelings.

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wachenikusemapoa t1_je9ux4s wrote

He could tell her she's beautiful everyday but she would never believe him now. Some things can't be fixed.

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ThrowRA_womanpokedex OP t1_je9vz7i wrote

I do tell her every day. She says that she doesn’t believe me because I don’t go out of my way to do the romantic gestures she appreciates because I think they’re cringe.

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wachenikusemapoa t1_je9wota wrote

It was very immature of you to "rate" her in the first place let alone tell her about it. And if you're not willing to show her love in the way she appreciates, especially after saying something that makes her feel she's not your top choice, then just let her go. You don't sound like you're willing to put in any effort to show her you care. You're no good for her.

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bamboosticks t1_jebaqe2 wrote

If you think they're cringe you're letting society dictate the rules of your relationship, instead of responding to your girlfriend's needs.

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