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GN_des t1_je9vy8m wrote

You're dating a 6/10 who has a love language that you find ridiculous.

Did you really make the right choice?

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AcanthaceaeGrouchy95 t1_je9wlx8 wrote

Exactly man, he doesn't consider her good enough to be called a 10, he finds her love language cringe and is still with her for what? Atleast that girl deserves a better person than OP for sure

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ThrowRA_womanpokedex OP t1_je9wp0e wrote

I don’t think she’s a 6/10. I came from a different country (tall, thin, white) where women look different and I was used to it. I actually realized that I prefer her look (mixed race, curvy) and that she’s the most attractive to me.

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jabmwr t1_jea2tns wrote

So then why say that at all? This answer makes everything infinitely worse. You basically just said that you did find her a 6/10 because you’re used to a white demographic. You then slowly changed your “rating” to “the most attractive” because you learned to love her body and ethnicity/race. Ick.

ETA: I think people can initially not find someone as attractive, but really like their partner’s core; the attraction can grow as you become more intimate and grow the relationship. In this context, given OP’s answers, this is only surface level and not focused on the actual connection between them.

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