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ThrowRA_womanpokedex OP t1_je9wp0e wrote

Reply to comment by GN_des in I (36M) rated my girlfriend (24F) a 6/10 at the start of us dating. by ThrowRA_womanpokedex

I don’t think she’s a 6/10. I came from a different country (tall, thin, white) where women look different and I was used to it. I actually realized that I prefer her look (mixed race, curvy) and that she’s the most attractive to me.

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jabmwr t1_jea2tns wrote

So then why say that at all? This answer makes everything infinitely worse. You basically just said that you did find her a 6/10 because you’re used to a white demographic. You then slowly changed your “rating” to “the most attractive” because you learned to love her body and ethnicity/race. Ick.

ETA: I think people can initially not find someone as attractive, but really like their partner’s core; the attraction can grow as you become more intimate and grow the relationship. In this context, given OP’s answers, this is only surface level and not focused on the actual connection between them.

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