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Zealousideal-Meet588 t1_jefqetz wrote

Reply to comment by VanMan32 in I(25F) like A(25M) but A's brother H(24M) likes me by [deleted]

I want to first confirm if A also likes me or not. Cz there's a restraint here. I broke up an year and half ago from my ex of 5 years. And A is his colleagues. We met through my ex. He has always respected me and treated me as his homie's gf. I am not sure if he will be able to see me as a potential gf so soon or not. So want to give this friendship a little more time before I confess my feelings

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VanMan32 t1_jefqnkn wrote

Then A probably doesn’t want to cross a certain boundary with his colleague. Also, is H his brother or cousin?

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Zealousideal-Meet588 t1_jefqw0i wrote

Yes. That's the constraint here. Though my ex cheated on me and is dating someone else rn. When he knew I surprised A on his bday, he called me and was pissed off why was I still in touch with his friends. But A and me have been friends for like 2-3 years now. And we have become better friends than A and my ex.

H is cousin of A

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