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8vox8 OP t1_jeevj49 wrote

Reply to comment by Creative_Recover in I (26f) haven't had sex with my fiancé (27m) for longer than I can remember by 8vox8

I just really care about him and don't want to hurt him

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Creative_Recover t1_jeewoxq wrote

Bringing up these issues shouldn't be hurtful to him. And if he really loves you, it will matter a lot for him to discover that he has been making you feel so dismissed (and he will want to do something about it).

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8vox8 OP t1_jeewz6k wrote

I've tried to discuss these things with him in the past but nothing really changes and I'm tired of saying the same things over and over y'know

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Creative_Recover t1_jeexcdy wrote

Then why are you so admantly convinced that he cares about you as much as you do him?

I think you need to face up to the fact here that you are very poor at forming boundaries and that your partner simply isn't that invested in your relationship. You deserve to be with someone who cares about you as much as you do them.

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