thisisrandom801 t1_jeh49cn wrote on March 31, 2023 at 11:49 PM

*THERE IS SOMETHING VERY WRONG WITH THIS GIRL AND YOUR INTUITION KNOWS IT*

What she's doing isn't normal and is borne of insecurity, poor boundaries and whatever other issues she might be subscribing to.

She see's things about you and your relationship she wants for herself and can't understand why you have it and she doesn't- why you have your man, and why she's got hers.

Regardless, doesn't sound like you or your husband are qualified or interested in coaching her through whatever's going on, so it's best to keep your distance from her and let her find another woman's husband to fixate on.

Feeling uncomfy is the first red flag we've got that who's around us shouldn't be there and it's really not worth the energy finding out why or questioning ourselves about it. Give her enough time and she'll show you why you're right to be guarded around her.

EDIT- LMAO totally wrong sub. I get a lil too invested sometimes. Whoops /grimace

NomadicusRex t1_jeh5jlt wrote on March 31, 2023 at 11:59 PM

>NTA!

Wrong sub. ;-)

And yeah, some folks don't get how a marriage is supposed to work, how it's a partnership between two people who are supposed to love each other. A good marriage partnership is a "whole is greater than the sum of its parts" type of deal. I've had that before, but unfortunately some folks weren't raised with good relationship examples and it's a hard concept for them to wrap their minds around. I think they view a marriage as almost a roommate situation where you get to have sex. ::shrugs::