normalboyz1 t1_jegm77u wrote on March 31, 2023 at 9:35 PM

Reply to comment by Critical-Attention51 in Me 24F and Boyfriend 23M , 3 year relationship while living together nearly the entire time.. I’ve made an interesting discovery by [deleted]

i think he's lucky you're pretty open minded. rather than making this an issue maybe you can actually enhancing your sex life.

maybe brainstorm what you both can do to experience the thrill together. maybe if it's involving stranger then do some light exhibitionism together for a start.

Critical-Attention51 t1_jegmwe1 wrote on March 31, 2023 at 9:40 PM

I think using this to enhance our sex life is a great option, because I feel trying to bury the feeling would only create an issue down the road.. but he is persistent on the fact that it’s not something he wants to continue doing at any point in his life, and that this personality he takes on while having these conversations with other women is so detached from himself.

I even joked that the reason he possibly doesn’t speak to me the way he speaks to these other women is because he actually views me as a human being, which he chuckled and agreed to. It’s a very peculiar situation for sure.