My (22 FTM) girlfriend (56F) is trying to force me to get bottom surgery.

Submitted by jda0201 t3_12786ec in relationship_advice

Look before you guys say anything I know the age gap is crazy. But my queen has taught me that age is just a number.

So recently I went on vacation with my girlfriend. I forgot my strap on dildo and was unable to please my girlfriend. Usually I would use my strap on and she would climax with penetration along with stimulation of the clitoris. And she would eat my ass.

This time around she was unable to climax because I forgot my penis. This caused a huge fight. She threw a wine bottle at my neck and it bounced off the floor and stabbed my toe. I needed 6 stitches and am writing this from the hospital. I don’t know why she becomes so aggressive when I forget my penis.

Backstory: she has only been with cis men, until I came around and “flipped her world upside down”. I love her so much but the anger issues are really tampering with our relationship. But I know my strap on is bigger than any man she’s been with before and my stroke game is pretty fire.

So she was really mad that I forgot my penis and was only able to use my finger ( which is petite and feminine. ). She then said “the cock feels so much better” and I stormed off and cried, was wheezing and threw up in the bathroom. I know it sounds extreme but her meat pocket is super saggy due to her old age. I think I know my worth and I’m not sure if I should get a real cock because I’m broke.

She really makes me feel like I need it to please her but only when I forget my cock.

Any advice?

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Bumper6190 t1_jed36m2 wrote

"Bottom Surgery"? No, you are not ready!

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-cumdogmillionaire- t1_jed3eyb wrote

leave her she’s abusive. please get out before this violence escalates even more.

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VanMan32 t1_jed403c wrote

> Look before you guys say anything I know the age gap is crazy. But my queen has taught me that age is just a number.

You should get a new teacher.

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not_addictive t1_jed40ez wrote

ANY fight that results in a hospital visit is worth ending a relationship over. It doesn’t matter here what you all were fighting over or how she’s made you feel (although her actions all scream abuse in general). She intentionally injured you. Run.

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BeltalowdaOPA22 t1_jed43v8 wrote

> But my queen has taught me that age is just a number.

You spelled Groomer wrong. Literally grooming.

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Building_Burning t1_jed5hji wrote

I just want to point out that she is abusive. No argument should escalate to violence. She threw a wine bottle at you and you had to go to the hospital. Please leave her. You don't deserve to tolerate abuse, you deserve better.

As far as bottom surgery, only get it if you want it. Don't do it for someone else.

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kavalejava t1_jedad4t wrote

That's literally a life changing operation. You are in a abusive relationship and can't see it. There are others out there who won't treat you like crap.

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Unable_Duty7809 t1_jedbc7q wrote

No red flags here. None whatsoever.

Seriously, meat pocket? The trolls need to try harder.

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LengthinessFresh4897 t1_jedbw7b wrote

She threw a wine bottle at you and you had to get stitches if that’s not enough for you to leave idk what to tell you

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monstermashslowdance t1_jeddx40 wrote

Is this New York’s hottest club because this post has everything! Age gap, dildos, ass eating, forgotten penis, domestic violence, petite and feminine fingers, hospitalization, and an old meat pocket. All that’s missing is MTVs Dan Cortez.

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not_addictive t1_jef5gwq wrote

Replying to VanMan32 (#2,514,119)

this. Age is just a number but abuse is more common with age gaps and this is absolutely abusive whether OP’s girlfriend is 56 or 26. She’s taught him that age makes her smarter than him and in charge of him. This is a textbook abusive relationship

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