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maybeimbonkers t1_jefgd3k wrote

Reply to comment by [deleted] in I [F32] had one of the worst fights with husband [M32] by [deleted]

Can I just ask if it was wrong that I wanted to work in the living room? I always make sure to turn the light off and be quiet..I also just needed some space alone while working. Is this wrong that I took this stance?

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[deleted] OP t1_jefgsp4 wrote

No u weren't wrong, it's your house u can work wherever u like. Uninvited guests should not be your problem also he physically assaulted u and then verbally abused you. He is the one who's wrong through and through

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TelevisionMelodic340 t1_jeflcqj wrote

It is your house. If your only options for workspace are the living room or your bedroom, you have to work in one or the other ... And living room seems entirely reasonable to me.

I wouldn't be so worried about inconveniencing MIL who is sleeping in your living room for 6 months. If she doesn't like it, she can go live somewhere else.

Girl, you just need to get out.

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maybeimbonkers t1_jefnhpi wrote

Thanks for understanding. MIL has been doing really poorly health wise. The only reason why I'm not so concerned about sitting in the living room ( believe me I try to be as non intrusive as possible) is because she gets a minimum of 2 hours of rest in the afternoon. She doesn't have to do much of work as I cook and do the dishes most of the time. She just has to take her medicines and maybe get some warm water from the kitchen. Sometimes she'll sleep 3-4 hours in the afternoon.

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dart1126 t1_jeg3gtv wrote

You are setting the bar way low here by repeatedly asking about one something that obviously was fine for you to do. Your entire situation is a mess.

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