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The short and long answer is yes

You're right that it objectively makes zero sense at all. But instead of guessing, just message her and get the answer you need. Good luck.

She wants you as a man to take the lead and ask her out. Maybe after a few dates, she will also take more initiative, and if it's a deal breaker for you, just make sure to mention it during your second or third date.

It seems like for whatever reason, she doesn’t want to be the one to text first. Could be a pride thing, maybe she has a boyfriend, there’s a ton of possibilities.

There are lots of reasons someone might do this. Some better than others. If you're interested, you might as well overlook it and just try texting her. If she doesn't want to answer, she won't. Not much to lose at this stage.

This. Basically she wants you to text her first. Go for it. Good luck.

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I'm going to be frank because there are a lot of scams and imposters everywhere.

Most likely, it's not that she didn't know how to use the phone, she just didn't want you to start calling her. So, gave you a number to text her instead.

Have you ever considered the fact that she might be a he, and not a she?

Lol no I have known her since middle school.

ok, my bad. Still seemed strange.

Anyway, it just looks like she is playing mind games with you.

Yeah she has always been a compulsive liar I don't think she means anything bad though more just a hardcore self defense mechanism she has always to everyone been this way even back in the 6th grade.

Oh dude, don't even start with a compulsive liar. Nothing but pain, angst and shenanigans (not the fun type) are down that path,

Eh, I guess if that's the case I will find out the hard way. I don't really feel threatened by her like that at all. If she try to lie to me about something serious its just going to end with her crying lol. (inevitably after a long unnecessary argument)

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