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jrl_iblogalot t1_jeh2x1c wrote

>Would you give a second chance to a person who betrayed your trust?

No.

>Have you ever done it?

No.

>Should it be done under a certain circumstance? Even if this person shows remorse?

Well you definitely shouldn't do it if they don't show remorse. But if they do it's up to you to decide whether or not to give them a second chance. There's no objectively correct answer.

Personally, in your situation I would not advise you to do so. Take it from someone more than twice your age, you're still very young, not even a fully-legal adult yet, and you just met her a month ago (I know it feels like "a lot", but that's due to your youth and comparative inexperience). You don't need this. Be glad you saw her true side this early, and cut your losses and move on with your life.

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IMASolitaryMan OP t1_jeh3pzn wrote

Thanks a lot. Actually I didn't met her a month ago, we dated serious one month ago. We met each other on a period of two months, still little. She already knew this guy and said that when we started dating she stopped talking to him, still hard to believe though. I think you are right. I'm deceiving myself with this idea of "Just a mistake". I should move on

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jrl_iblogalot t1_jeh443s wrote

>Actually I didn't met her a month ago, we dated serious one month ago. We met each other on a period of two months, still little.

One month, two months, that doesn't change a thing I said.

>She already knew this guy and said that when we started dating she stopped talking to him, still hard to believe though.

This extra info is also irrelevant in regards to my advice.

> I think you are right.

That's all you really needed to say.

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