SevsMumma21217 t1_jegm6uc wrote on March 31, 2023 at 9:35 PM

Reply to comment by [deleted] in [26M] [24F] she was only dating me for sex and I feel kinda disgusted by throwRA283108

Why is that though? Why is your entire sense of self-worth connected to a woman you briefly dated who was completely honest with you about what she wanted from day one?

It seems like she enjoyed your company, but you wanted to get serious, and she didn't. So, she did the right thing and left you. That doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you or that you aren't worth having a relationship with. It only means that she was not the right woman to start a relationship with.

[deleted] t1_jegmets wrote on March 31, 2023 at 9:36 PM

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SevsMumma21217 t1_jegn0so wrote on March 31, 2023 at 9:40 PM

This isn't about you. You've done nothing wrong. There is nothing wrong with you.

But she's not ready for serious and that's valid, too.

Do yourself a favor and when a woman says to you, "I want to date but I'm not ready to get serious.", tell her "No thanks." and walk away.

[deleted] t1_jegnbg5 wrote on March 31, 2023 at 9:42 PM

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reluctantdonkey t1_jeh4c24 wrote on March 31, 2023 at 11:50 PM

> I don’t want to date knowing she’s just riding my dick for fun like I’m some kind of human sex toy

It's odd the combination of completely overblown sexual ego and soul-withering low personal self worth. Fascinating study.

reluctantdonkey t1_jeh45vo wrote on March 31, 2023 at 11:48 PM

No. She wouldn't have been.

You could have been Harry Fucking Styles with a PhD and she'd still want to be out there living an unattached life.

THIS. ISN'T. ABOUT. YOU.

Ps. I really have a ton of respect, honestly, for how she handled this whole thing, because holy heck if you telescoped your atttachement issues to her as much as you have here, she probably had a LOT of rightful concerns about how to enforce her boundaries.