momisacat t1_jegnr0w wrote on March 31, 2023 at 9:46 PM

Reply to comment by [deleted] in [26M] [24F] she was only dating me for sex and I feel kinda disgusted by throwRA283108

Do you frequently devalue yourself? Do you often think you aren't worthy?

[deleted] t1_jego3yy wrote on March 31, 2023 at 9:48 PM

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momisacat t1_jegprjh wrote on March 31, 2023 at 10:00 PM

You really need to put some thought into that. It's impossible to have a healthy relationship while feeling like you are lesser. It's a great way to end up clinging to someone you aren't compatible with or even staying with an abuser.

reluctantdonkey t1_jeh21nq wrote on March 31, 2023 at 11:32 PM

Or.. it's possible that it's not an UNDER assessment of worth and an OVER assessment of sexual prowess?

[deleted] t1_jegq51k wrote on March 31, 2023 at 10:03 PM

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momisacat t1_jegxqzo wrote on March 31, 2023 at 10:59 PM

Your worth comes from within you as an individual, not from relationships