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normalboyz1 t1_jeg57uf wrote

does he also gain weight during your relationship? if he does, are you ok with it?

or is there a change in him during the relationship that you don't like?

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griffypeenmachine t1_jeg5t5s wrote

we’ve both gained probably about the same amount of weight during the relationship. it does not bother me at all, as i am just as much, if not more as in love and attracted to him as i was at the beginning.

the only “change” is that we’ve moved in together and he’s kind of a slob, but i’m ok with that bc i do really enjoy cleaning lmao

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normalboyz1 t1_jeg9k3j wrote

there are discrepancies in your relationship. he gain weight and after living together you know he's a slob. but you don't mind those. for some ppl that's a negative changes.

i assume he doesn't like you're gaining weight but he never said anything because he gains weight too. and it's maybe true that he's becoming less attracted to you.

maybe have a sit down and try to get better together. you try to lose weight and you asked him not to be a slob and start helping out or he tries to lose weight as well. don't ask him to do both cos he will feel it's unfair. i think it's better to be someone that he wanted rather than policing his social media usage.

with the insta girls. personally i think it's hard to supervise that. those kind of stuff also appears in my feed and occasionally i look at them. im married and i know my wife dont have body like those models but im still masturbating to video of us having sex the most.

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griffypeenmachine t1_jeg8hj3 wrote

ok i have gotten a few notifications that ppl are commenting but they are not showing up 😭

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pbblankgirl t1_jegrrx0 wrote

You should stop policing what your boyfriend can look at on his phone.

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