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Winter-Travel5749 t1_jeefo5j wrote

You snooped - nothing good ever comes from that. You’re actively looking for reasons not to trust him - Why? Is there anything else that you question about him?

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ThrowRAforever459 OP t1_jeena9v wrote

It was up on his screen and I asked him for clarification and he started lying and being defensive. I have nothing else that I question about him, which is what makes all of this difficult. I want to say forget it and move on but I feel like that might be super naive…

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Winter-Travel5749 t1_jeeo88s wrote

It’s difficult with a LDR. But at some point you have to trust a person - until you decide not to trust them anymore. Follow your gut.

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ThrowRAforever459 OP t1_jeeoh4o wrote

Yeah… he can help rebuild my trust by showing me that the messages were truly nothing, but he won’t. You’re right that I can only go by my gut at this point. It still really doesn’t feel right. But idk what else to do.

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