cinnamongirl73 t1_jeeft2q wrote on March 31, 2023 at 12:45 PM

I can’t answer the Skype question because I don’t use it, but I’d be alarmed as well. Especially if it’s just meaningless conversations, he’d show you. He’d be 100% comfortable showing you! Something doesn’t sound right here. And unless y’all are spies and he’s undercover (lol) there’s no reason for the secrecy. I feel like he’s panicking and showing you quick glances so you don’t ask anymore questions.

As for how you handle that is on you.

ThrowRAforever459 OP t1_jeeyvbc wrote on March 31, 2023 at 3:03 PM

Happy cake day! And thank you for your thoughts. I can assure you I’d make a terrible undercover spy, and apparently so would he lol.

The quick glances didn’t sit right with me either. I’m leaning towards going to a nearby hotel for a couple days to give this all a think.

cinnamongirl73 t1_jef4gqg wrote on March 31, 2023 at 3:39 PM

Thank you! And yeah, that’s EXACTLY what I’d do. If he’s truly got nothing to hide, or anything he’s worried about, he would have shown you. However, you know he’s going to delete those threads now, right?