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UnsightlyFuzz t1_jeh2cu2 wrote

Ouch. He yells or uses a supercilious tone with you and then says YOU have to get used to it. No, honey, you don't. Walk out on him when he starts, and don't come back until you get an abject apology.

He's being a jerk, and don't you dare let him make you think you're the problem.

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UsuallyWrite2 t1_jeh13ff wrote

Therapy?

Not sure why you’d put inanimate objects in priority over the dogs but…here we are. Maybe I’m nuts but when our dogs need out they need out. Not in 5 min, now.

The yelling thing bugs me too—like if you want to speak to me, come to where I am, don’t holler at me from wherever else in the house. My partner did that at first but is respectful about it now.

Kind of seems to me you guys should do some couples counseling and find a better path forward.

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Dry_Guidance8818 t1_jeh31ri wrote

The dogs had been out maybe 2 hours beforehand, so they weren’t actively asking to pee. If they were I would have taken care of them first. Yeah, I would like counseling, but it’s honestly out of my price range currently.

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mesalikeredditpost t1_jegziew wrote

Work on your reaction so you respond instead.

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Dry_Guidance8818 t1_jeh0xos wrote

Definitely trying to work on responding more calmly. I apologized for yelling and he said I just need to accept that I was 100% in the wrong and I refuse to do that.

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