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MoonchildEm96 OP t1_jegrkop wrote

Reply to comment by Logical-Wasabi7402 in Withholding sex in a situationship/relationship - bad thing or not? F26 & M25 by MoonchildEm96

I just know he may see it that way, as his ex used to withhold affection and sex apparently. I’m not getting in to that specifically though, that’s a whole ass problem in itself - and one I have zero facts for.

But yeah it shocked me that he was seemingly genuinely frustrated at me saying no.

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Logical-Wasabi7402 t1_jegrn68 wrote

Tell him that it's not fair for him to use you as nothing but a sex toy.

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MoonchildEm96 OP t1_jegs0q4 wrote

I asked him a few weeks ago what he actually liked about me. From what I remember, his answer was based around the things I do for him. Nothing about me as a person. He was also surprised that I even asked him that to begin with.

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StarryCloudRat t1_jegua04 wrote

Yeah, that sounds like a line to make you feel guilty for not wanting to have sex whenever he does.

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