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Many options: They might be hacked or spoofed accounts that she did not create herself, she could be trying to be a social media influencer of some sort, she could have one for business and one for personal, she could be really forgetful and bad at remembering log-ins... LOADS of reasons.

But, more importantly, worrying about what your toxic ex is up to is an utter and complete waste of mental energy. I'd gently encourage spending time getting over her, not figuring out why something that doesn't matter is the way it is, when there is no way for anyone to know.

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I guess there's a lot of options ranging from them having too much time on their hands to hiding relationships from people they know. More importantly.... why are you worried about what your ex is doing?

I was just curious about why anyone in general would have so many different accounts. She remembers passwords easily. She's very smart and knows how to play the game. I guess im asking so i can understand if having so many different social media accounts pertaining to different relationships they have had in the past is a red flag or not. Like when we first got together and i looked her up, there were like 5 different ones to pick from. Though it was odd , I never questioned it until now.

Agreed. Im not exactly worried what she's doing in particular. I was just wondering if have many accs is a red flag. She knows all the logins to them and everything.
For future reference i suppose is why i asked.

Ok so next time you stumble on someone with something like that, ask them. That way you get to judge whether the reason makes sense or not.