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Stunning-Profit8876 t1_jednr50 wrote

She has blocked you and you have acknowledged that it is for good reason. Leave her alone. Her new relationship is none of your business even if he is cheating on her. I would potentially tell a mutual friend if you have one, but you absolutely shouldn't be trying to contact her.

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SassyQueeny t1_jednwnf wrote

Even if they brake up you will not get back together, so if you have that thought in the back of your mind forget it.

If I was you I wouldn’t do anything, not my circus not my monkeys

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Callmemuddled t1_jedo8uq wrote

Focus on yourself. Her life is none of your business anymore.

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Amar_Akbar_Anthony20 t1_jedoe91 wrote

She does not want any contact with you if you are blocked on everything. Respect that.

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AffectionateWheel386 t1_jedof32 wrote

You can create an account and anonymously let her know, and then let her deal with it how she does. I doubt that she can hear it from you anyway.

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zdubb87 t1_jedou73 wrote

“Not my circus, not my monkeys.” I would just Ignore and move on. That chapter is closed, don’t reopen it

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Vegetable-Cod-2340 t1_jee866x wrote

I get you’re trying to help, but this isn’t something you want to get involved in.

There is no scenario where she doesn’t think you’re trying to sabotage her relationship to get her back.

If you’re concerned that she will be hurt, maybe give a heads up to one of her friends to be on the lookout, if he’s cheating they’ll find out.

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PotentialAd807 t1_jefxjvy wrote

OP,

You want her back and you will do anything to do it. Just let it go, move on and find someone who wants you for you.

By telling her anything would devalue you.

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