CephalopodSpy t1_jegb1h2 wrote on March 31, 2023 at 8:19 PM

You need to talk to her about it. She may just be assuming you know you're invited or that you may not want to go for some reason.

Either way, she has no way of knowing your feelings are hurt if you don't tell him. She can do what she wants on her birthday, but I doubt she would be entirely uncaring about how you feel.

BarnacleTop5037 OP t1_jegc5mc wrote on March 31, 2023 at 8:26 PM

Ill have to talk to her. But I think I will wait until afterwards

Unfortunately I know for absolute certainty I’m not invited along. They have a discord event & group made for it and guess who’s not a part of it..

I even briefly asked her when she first told me the plans if I could tag along… and I was met with a “sorry no no, this will be a little bit more tight knit”

Own-Writing-3687 t1_jegldww wrote on March 31, 2023 at 9:29 PM

If you're not on a higher level than her friends, then she's not all that committed or emotionally invested in you.

At 26yo she knows how this looks.

I suggest you prepare to be single.