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Own-Writing-3687 t1_jefoeon wrote

Your decision is : go zero contact (that's the consequence of permenantly contaminating your friendship); or divorce your current partners.

In either event, you destroyed your marriage. You need to confess to your wife. She has the right to decide whether she wants to reconcile or divorce.

And you have to make yourself a safe partner. Your behavior was selfish, entitled, deceitful, and shows zero empathy for your life partner.

There's no quick fix (and don't ever blame it on the alcohol).

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Street_Passage_1151 t1_jegbgbe wrote

Very telling that he is super concerned about his friend throughout this entire post and doesn't mention his wife or feeling guilty at all.

I feel really bad for her and I hope she finds out soon.

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[deleted] OP t1_jefs7kl wrote

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tercer78 t1_jeg2aum wrote

You’ve already purposefully harmed her. Now you’re trying to delay her happiness in life by withholding the truth from her. Helluva healthy attitude for marriage there, bud.

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