Not only is he okay with someone discussing having casual sex with you, and not only is he acting incredulous that someone else is choosing to have sex with you, but he is commenting on your body after being asked not to and he's doing it in a disrespectful way. I would consider distancing from this friend.

Why are u still friends?

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>My guy friend (24m) and his friends always say jokes to each other that I would personally find really offensive if they were said to me but they all seem to be fine with it.

This is a weird thing about guys. I used to be amazed at the harsh things my ex would say about or to other guys, like he had one co-worker he addressed as "maggot." Women just don't do that!

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>Should I distance myself from this friend?

It couldn't hurt.

OK sounds like Donald Trump, move on. It's not just locker room talk. It's degrading, demeaning and not nice at all.

I'd ditch this friend.

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