ThrowRAspaghetti666 OP t1_jeeczgt wrote on March 31, 2023 at 12:21 PM

Reply to comment by sliverofoptimism in My [19M] girlfriend [19F] slept with another guy whilst things were complicated between us. Really need advice. by ThrowRAspaghetti666

I think it hurts because at the time this happened I wouldn’t have gone out with another girl because I thought we were figuring things out together.

sliverofoptimism t1_jeettlo wrote on March 31, 2023 at 2:29 PM

I feel like if both parties are actively working on something you shouldn’t be going out and dating, but I thought I understood from your post you weren’t even really talking over the break, taking a really long time to respond, right?

ThrowRAspaghetti666 OP t1_jef72gh wrote on March 31, 2023 at 3:56 PM

We were talking every couple of days over the break, when I got back I didn’t communicate because of exams. I thought we had things on hold until they were done, she thought that it was finished. 😕