Submitted by throwRaPurse t3_127wi6o in relationship_advice
My boyfriend have been together on and off for the last 4 years. In 2020 things felt distant and I felt like I wasn’t putting effort in the relationship. I went on his Insta and he had messaged a girl saying he had a dream that she destroyed him with her big str*p on. I was very wowed by this.
So we have moved past that, but the last few months has been treating me like trash. He never touches me, initiates sex not even kiss me. I have to like beg for his attention or intercourse. He does works 12 hour shifts I get he may be tired but When I tell him how I feel he said he does enough and there’s not enough time in a day to please me. It makes me feel like I’m alone. I feel like there is something wrong with me like he’s not attracted to me.
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