You go see your family and have a great time.

And while you’re there, make an appointment with a divorce attorney, so that you can find out what you need to do to get away from the controlling, childish, emotionally manipulative man that you married. He sounds just as toxic as his family.

You also make an appointment with a good therapist, so that you have support, and can figure out why you would even consider canceling your trip when your husband had his temper tantrum. He won’t get better without actual help from a professional.

Divorce him and have a great life without him. You’re too young to be dealing with such behavior for the rest of your life.