has anyone ever felt the same way? and if you got out of it how did you finally do it? like i am so SICK of him not making time for me and i am sick of arguing about it. everything is dead. we haven’t been intimate since august. there is no love or romance anymore. he is just too busy with his kid and all the other nonsense chaos he creates in his life. yet i still can’t just break up with him. i just can NEVER say the words. why. i feel like i’m in mental shackles. :( it sounds so dumb but the words never come out.

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WildlyUninteresting t1_jeg4gw0 wrote on March 31, 2023 at 7:35 PM

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Why do you fear leaving?

Neat-Lawfulness9586 OP t1_jeg6itw wrote on March 31, 2023 at 7:49 PM

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Replying to WildlyUninteresting (#2,546,238)

i guess i know if i leave then he is gone from my life forever (my choice ofc) and that makes me sad cause we have a good time together and we are so similar. and i enjoy his company. i just hate how things have been and he won’t make time for me and it’s not fair. but obviously his actions are telling me he doesn’t care about this relationship and i’m not important even if his words say the opposite.