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BinkoBankoBonko t1_jegc4np wrote

100% tell your white bride about your Asian fetish. How else can she fulfill your desires?

You are both full-fledged adults so the conversation should go over well.

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AnalystOk5065 t1_jegao4q wrote

Is she Asian?

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eybosscan OP t1_jegasqf wrote

No, she’s white which is why I have doubts…

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AnalystOk5065 t1_jegb9f6 wrote

Yeah. Obviously don't tell her.

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eybosscan OP t1_jegbf5o wrote

But, I thought being honest and communicating was what’s really important?

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BelmontIncident t1_jegbwvp wrote

There's three questions you should ask yourself before you say something. Is it true? Is it useful? Is it kind?

If something is not at least two of those things, don't say it. Telling someone you have a fetish that they will never be able to act on is neither useful nor kind. Would you want a list of all the other people she's attracted to?

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AnalystOk5065 t1_jegc84k wrote

Yeah, but you also have to use your brain. First think "could this piss off my wife?" If the answer is yes, don't fucking tell her.

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AnalystOk5065 t1_jegcc6b wrote

And you're 18 and getting married? You sure that's a great idea? How about waiting like 10 years...

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eybosscan OP t1_jegdavv wrote

It’s a term of endearment darling…

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AnalystOk5065 t1_jegdftv wrote

My bride? I've never heard anyone say that unless they were literally talking about their wife or fiance.

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eybosscan OP t1_jegdn6x wrote

Jeez we’re not married yet, ok?

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AnalystOk5065 t1_jege20e wrote

So wait, she's your fiance then? I just want to make sure I'm understanding this situation...

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eybosscan OP t1_jege24l wrote

But, if she asks about it, should I lie?

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AnalystOk5065 t1_jege8yv wrote

Yup. And why would she ask you if you have an Asian fetish? You probably won't have to lie because she probably won't ask you. But if she does, you lie your ass off...

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_lmmk_ t1_jegbyu7 wrote

Why do you want to share this, something might hurt her, with her?

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eybosscan OP t1_jegc26t wrote

But, I thought being honest and communicating was what’s really important?

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_lmmk_ t1_jegc59a wrote

It is, but why be so insensitive to tell her something like this????

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