Submitted by GunterFanClub t3_127sngt in relationship_advice
Wondering how folks choose to split finances, especially when each partner is in very different financial positions.
For example - my partner (29M) and I (24F) are planning to move in together soon and he makes a little under 6 figures and has been working full time since graduating from college 5 years ago and has a lot of savings and disposable income. I’m a full time graduate student (I also have a part time job but really don’t make a lot of money) and I’ve been using my savings to cover everything so far (my living expenses, dates, birthday gifts, my half for weekend trips, etc). Feeling kinda overwhelmed right now since I still have a little over a year left in my program before I’ll start working (and even then I’ll make half of what he does).
Idk fully what I’m even asking for in this post but if folks could let me know how you have navigated splitting finances that would be great
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