My husband thought the same. His mom always did everything and he only had to take out the trash. I told him I absolutely will not do all the work. I was in school full time but also working too. I hate when men think it is the women’s “job” to do all the household duties and her also expect her to contribute financially. Because by there logic it is the man’s job to bring him the money so wtf would I be expected to do both.

I put my foot down and my husband is much better about the division of labor. Plus our kids are older so they chip in as well. This is something the needs to be addressed before marriage IMO