Submitted by [deleted] t3_126o37p in relationship_advice
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Castle_of_Aaaaaaargh t1_je9x7qz wrote
Some wise words for you:
Just because you heard from a 3rd party that someone likes you, doesnt mean you have to do anything at all.
Whether its 1 girl or 2, you dont have to react to the rumour/gossip. Because thats all it is- your other friend is getting involved and.. causing drama? Playing match maker? Being nosey? Unless you hear from someone directly that they like you, you dont have anything to respond to.
If you had particularly strong(er) feelings for someone, you’d already be gravitating towards them. But in this case, you don’t really have anything in mind that YOU want, so dont worry about it. No pressure to act any differently- if someone likes ya, its because you’re being yourself. Not reacting to some rumours and stressing out over what you need to do now :)
strategicpians t1_je9xige wrote
I actually do like one of them a lot, she’s really sweet. She’s told me I smell good a lot and let me borrow a wrist wrap because my wrist has been hurting but Idk I feel like if I asked for her number it wouldn’t go well
Kubuubud t1_je9xq6a wrote
The lady might just think you’re a good dude and care about these women and is trying to play matchmaker.
You don’t know that she’s accurate, and “admirer” could just indicate they said you’re handsome or something.
If you’re not interested, just ignore it. And maybe tell the lady who told you that you make it a point to avoid workplace relationships or something of the sort, just to get her to stop
strategicpians t1_je9ybev wrote
I am interested so it’s fine I guess they’re very pretty. I like the one girl that has told me I smell good multiple times before and she even remembered to being a wrist brace for me to borrow, but idk if she like likes me actually or is just nice.
Kubuubud t1_jea10mt wrote
I would guess that she’s interested, but slow and steady wins the race. Maybe try to grab lunch with her one day or bring in a special treat to share. Friendship is the best possible foundation for a relationship
LhasaApsoSmile t1_jea3zk4 wrote
Do not date in the workplace unless you are going to leave the job in less than a year.
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