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Towniemania t1_jecnzs3 wrote

>I’ve been talking/ unofficially dating this guy for over a year

why? sounds pretty dumb

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StarryCloudRat t1_jeco1du wrote

If you’re not exclusive with this guy, doesn’t sound like you did anything wrong. But in the future, I wouldn’t just have sex with people out of frustration with someone else.

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disposable_conduct t1_jecoz7n wrote

Who you sleep with while single shouldn’t matter for future relationships. Sleeping with others as a way too cope with feelings isn’t the best coping mechanism as so you’ve stated it doesn’t make you feel any better. Find a better way to release your frustrations. You are free to move on and pursue other relationships but don’t pursue them just as a means to get over or wait for someone. Live your life don’t wait on someone to return your feelings. If the time for you both ever comes then let it, but don’t dwell on something that could or couldn’t happen. Live in the now.

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secretfudgerecipe t1_jecvt6d wrote

Replying to Towniemania (#2,509,596)

It’s honestly super complicated but it’s a combo of timing, distance, and just our lives not lining up. I know it’s weird and it sucks but I just have a gut feeling that he’s supposed to be in my life right now and I can’t just cut him off. We’ve talked about it and set boundaries and just hang out as friends these days but the feelings won’t go away. And he hadn’t kissed me for like 6 months until like 2 weeks ago when we were hanging

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