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Its really none of his business anyways. The past is the past and we all have one. If he doesnt believe you or keeps pressuring you to disclose private information then hes a jerk.

His whole thing I guess is nothing should be private if we’re together ?

Thats a HIM problem. You dont have to tell him anything you dont want to.

How long yall been together ?

Over a year

So why hasnt it bothered him before ? I'd ask him why the sudden interest about your past relationships.

Not his business at all. He’s weird

You’ve made it clear that you have limits to the emotional intimacy you’re willing to share with him, which is entirely up to you. It’s his choice whether to remain with you after knowing this.

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There is a reason no one his age will date him. What an insufferable insecure douche.