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[deleted] OP t1_jebvskl wrote

Reply to comment by nanimal77 in Is my marriage over ? 31M/29F by [deleted]

She’s always on her phone texting and calling people but she uses her phone a lot for work taking to clients. So I’m not sure if it’s for work or pleasure. She engages with our son whenever she can. She’s a good mom

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OkCardiologist2403 t1_jecfzwk wrote

She’s checked out of your marriage would check her phone and phone records, almost evey cheating post mentions excessive use and secrecy with their phone

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Ebbie45 t1_jed9rq8 wrote

I mean, considering OP posted last month in the New Jersey 4fr sub with the following ("Hung white muscular male looking for a fuck buddy all times of the day. No drama, no bullshit. FEMALES ONLY. Message me and I’ll send picture"), I'm more concerned about him cheating than her.

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Curious-One4595 t1_jedvz6g wrote

It’s not cheating to get your sexual needs met elsewhere because your spouse has unilaterally and without explanation opted out of sex. She broke the marriage relationship first and refuses to communicate at all about it.

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MelodicPiranha t1_jed7z77 wrote

Being on the phone texting people doesn’t mean she may not be depressed. If the switch was drastic and happened right after the birth of your son, I doubt it’s cheating. Women don’t exactly feel like sex bombs right after giving birth.

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