OkCardiologist2403 t1_jecfzwk wrote on March 31, 2023 at 12:14 AM

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She’s checked out of your marriage would check her phone and phone records, almost evey cheating post mentions excessive use and secrecy with their phone

Ebbie45 t1_jed9rq8 wrote on March 31, 2023 at 4:16 AM

I mean, considering OP posted last month in the New Jersey 4fr sub with the following ("Hung white muscular male looking for a fuck buddy all times of the day. No drama, no bullshit. FEMALES ONLY. Message me and I’ll send picture"), I'm more concerned about him cheating than her.

mr_john_steed t1_jedagsp wrote on March 31, 2023 at 4:23 AM

Welp

Curious-One4595 t1_jedvz6g wrote on March 31, 2023 at 8:59 AM

It’s not cheating to get your sexual needs met elsewhere because your spouse has unilaterally and without explanation opted out of sex. She broke the marriage relationship first and refuses to communicate at all about it.

OkCardiologist2403 t1_jee6iuh wrote on March 31, 2023 at 11:18 AM

Yes it is cheating get divorced

[deleted] OP t1_jee27of wrote on March 31, 2023 at 10:27 AM

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MelodicPiranha t1_jed7z77 wrote on March 31, 2023 at 3:59 AM

Being on the phone texting people doesn’t mean she may not be depressed. If the switch was drastic and happened right after the birth of your son, I doubt it’s cheating. Women don’t exactly feel like sex bombs right after giving birth.

[deleted] OP t1_jedhkdn wrote on March 31, 2023 at 5:41 AM

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