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FullFrontal687 t1_jed4a3d wrote

"We’ve worked our asses off to earn a beautiful forever home" - sunk cost fallacy

"She walked away without saying a word." - post-partum depression

"We’ve had sex about 5 times within these 2 years and honestly, I basically had to beg for it." - you have lost pride in yourself and somehow accepted this as the new normal; its not

" I’ve suggested marriage counseling but she said absolutely not" - not acceptable unless she is suffering from severe depression

I would recommend getting as many family members together as possible, explain the situation to you, and then stage an intervention. If she still refuses counseling and an evaluation, you walk, and take everything with you that is due to you. I would also fight for as much custody as possible because I don't think someone like this is safe around children in the long term.

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Camp_Munch t1_jed9xhk wrote

Not safe around kids? Great assumption there.

OP said himself that she's a good mother.

Because she doesn't want op anymore, doesn't make her a shit mother.

Maybe op isn't the fantastic and caring husband he's making out. You do only have his side of the story.

Sounds like she despises him and that doesn't happen for no reason.

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FullFrontal687 t1_jedbizv wrote

Yeah, let's just pretend that Debora Green and Andrea Yates never existed.

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Ebbie45 t1_jedbsjb wrote

It might not be a PPD issue. OP asked her to have sex with a woman a year ago and she requested a divorce afterwards. He also has repeatedly posted in r4r subs describing his dick size and asking for a "discreet" female "fuckbuddy."

It sounds like there's a lot of contextual info conveniently left out of this post that really skews what is written here.

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