UKNZ007Tubbs t1_jed9yi0 wrote on March 31, 2023 at 4:18 AM

Yes sorry high chance your marriage is over.

First she needs to be sent for professional help - to determine if she is suffering from PPD.

If she’s not in a massive bout of PPD then she’s either cheated or is cheating, so next step is paternity testing (probably a good idea even if PPD to put your mind at rest)

Then marriage counselling - this is non negotiable, if she says no again, go straight for the divorce attorney.

Ebbie45 t1_jedbmhu wrote on March 31, 2023 at 4:35 AM

> If she’s not in a massive bout of PPD then she’s either cheated or is cheating

OP has repeatedly posted in an r4r sub describing his dick size and requesting a female "fuck buddy." Just to give some more context.

UKNZ007Tubbs t1_jedc5vx wrote on March 31, 2023 at 4:41 AM

So they both may have cheated (OP for certain)

Ebbie45 t1_jedceea wrote on March 31, 2023 at 4:43 AM

Well I left open the possibility that maybe it's an open relationship, though that seems kind of doubtful. Him specifically requesting a "discreet" FWB seems off if that's the case. Sure, she could be cheating, who knows. But she also requested a divorce a year ago after he suggested she sleep with a woman.

So idk. There seems to be so much missing from this post that could provide really helpful context.