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miss-mercatale t1_jegla77 wrote

Message him and tell him it’s not working for you, wait until he has read the message and then block him. Everywhere. He’s clearly making you feel uncomfortable.

Early stages of meeting up shouldn’t result in what seems like a fairly aggressive tone. It’s like he’s not respecting you at all.

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kokopotate OP t1_jeglpzs wrote

The thing is, I'd found him a nice guy in the beginning and I'd said so to him, so I'm struggling thinking about saying the opposite now, even though it's true.

He says I am affectionate on my terms only. And what does that mean? Obviously I am affectionate on my terms, isn't everybody? Why would I fake affection when I'm not affectionate???

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miss-mercatale t1_jegm0uh wrote

Honestly he sounds a bit creepy to me. And and I said, he’s not making you comfortable right now. Getting to know someone early on should be fun instead of about worrying about whether you show the right sort of affection.

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kokopotate OP t1_jegmfz8 wrote

Would it bother you if I send you screenshots of the conversation? I just want to make sure that I'm not overreacting. It's fine if that's too much, let me know!

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ratakat t1_jegmvw1 wrote

You're not over reacting. We dont need to see chats to know this. He's weird in a bad way

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