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kokopotate OP t1_jeglpzs wrote

Reply to comment by miss-mercatale in I 24F want to leave guy 23M I met a week ago by kokopotate

The thing is, I'd found him a nice guy in the beginning and I'd said so to him, so I'm struggling thinking about saying the opposite now, even though it's true.

He says I am affectionate on my terms only. And what does that mean? Obviously I am affectionate on my terms, isn't everybody? Why would I fake affection when I'm not affectionate???

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miss-mercatale t1_jegm0uh wrote

Honestly he sounds a bit creepy to me. And and I said, he’s not making you comfortable right now. Getting to know someone early on should be fun instead of about worrying about whether you show the right sort of affection.

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kokopotate OP t1_jegmfz8 wrote

Would it bother you if I send you screenshots of the conversation? I just want to make sure that I'm not overreacting. It's fine if that's too much, let me know!

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ratakat t1_jegmvw1 wrote

You're not over reacting. We dont need to see chats to know this. He's weird in a bad way

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