Submitted by sgtrock525 t3_127yj27 in relationship_advice
Trying figure out if I overreacted and got mad at something I shouldn't have
Ok to start it off with context i 19(m) was working my side job last night and told my 20(f) girlfriend when she got off work to let me know and I'd clock out and go pick her up I was on a delivery at the time so I said give me 15 and I'll be otw,
she tells me it's fine she's about to go with her co worker to his hotel room to smoke a blunt and I told her I didn't like the sound of that but she is a adult and I'm not gonna stop her from doing anything she then she says her phones about to die so she won't be able to respond so me not knowing where she was I didn't pick her up I just said ok have a goodnight
She texted me today saying I'm being controlling not allowing her to do anything unless I'm with her and trying to make her feel bad which is really not the case and that I'm a asshole for not picking her up and all I said was I was just trying to communicate and tell you that I didn't feel entirely comfortable with you going to another guys hotel room to smoke a blunt with him
Please lmk if I'm the fucked up one here and where I should go
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